With weddings often come big expectations from those around you. Think hard about your own expectations. Then think about whether these expectations and aspirations are really yours or are they coming from others? Is it you who really wants the small intimate wedding or are you just rebelling against the lavish family wedding that your sister had last year?
Do you really want a big meringue wedding dress or is this something that your mother wants you to have as she never had the opportunity to wear one herself? Do you really want to wear a morning suit or is this something more for your father's benefit rather than yours? In fact, would you prefer to wear a lounge suit or if you could really have your way jeans and t-shirt but we won't go there!
