This is a time to think long and hard about what you yourself actually want and not what others want. Take care on this one. It is very easy to get caught up with other people's dreams to the point where you think that they are your very own.
Tips:
- Think where your expectations are coming from. Are they yours or someone else's?
- It is important to think through exactly what you want for yourself and not get carried along by what others think is best.
- It is not easy to necessarily identify where expectations come from so talk this through with a close friend who will allow you time to talk and not necessarily someone who wants to listen to the sound of their own voice!
- When you find out that your expectations are coming from your mother, your father, your sister or your friend, then a tactful conversation might be helpful so that everyone is perfectly clear about what you would really like for yourself.
If you are having difficulties communicating what you really want for your wedding to those around you or you feel you need relationship advice and support please do call Carole for a FREE, confidential 15 minute consultation. It helps to talk so do call on: 020 8954 1593 or email her at: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.
